Don’t give people the power to limit the type of woman you can be. Never let anyone make you feel like less of a woman. Many times there are persons in our lives that try to tell us what we should be doing. Sometimes, they even try to tell us how a woman should be. What a woman should do and what she can’t do. Well, I’m here to tell you that a woman can be and do anything that she wants to do and still be a woman.
Unable To Have Children
Many persons believe that you aren’t a true woman if you can’t have a child. They see women as baby-makers and nothing more. If you can’t have a baby, then you’re not a woman. I’m here to tell you that this is not so. If you’re a woman and you believe this, please stop! A woman is not truly a woman because she can have a baby. Never let anyone demean you and speak less of you as a woman because you’re unable to have a child. Your ability to give birth does not define you! You are still a woman! Don’t let their comments get to you. They do not determine your worth as a woman you do! Therefore hold your head high and keep working to be the best you!
Choosing To Have A Career
You’re not any less of a woman because you decide to get a career instead of staying home. If getting one is what makes you happy, do it! Creating opportunities for yourself does not make you any less of a woman. If creating a business or getting a job is what you need to feel like a woman, then go for it! If you want to have a career and a family, then why not? You decide the woman that you want to be.
Don’t let them tell you that you are any less of a woman because you choose to be a housewife. Don’t let them bring you down because you decide to stay home and take care of the children, cooking, and cleaning. After all, that is what you like. That is how you choose to live your life. They might try to convince you that you aren’t a true woman because women don’t do that anymore. However, you decide the woman that you want to be. So go ahead and do what makes you happy.
Worse of all, never let them tell you that you aren’t womanly because of how you look. Some women may have a flat chest. Does that make them any less of a woman than those that don’t? No! Some women have small butts. Does that mean that they are less of a woman? No! Many women like to exercise and get muscular. You know what? They still aren’t any less of a woman. They are all the women that they want to be and will continue to be!
The point of all this is, be the woman that you want to be. Never let anyone demean you as a woman because of your choices or your inability to produce children. Don’t let them lower you because of the way your body is. You decide the woman that you want to be. It’s all up to you! You know what is right for you. Don’t let them lessen your worth because you don’t check their boxes of what makes you a woman. Check your own boxes! It’s up to you to trust yourself and be confident in yourself as a woman. Know what you want, what you deserve, and make it happen! Choose to be strong! Be empowered and be bold! Be the woman you want to be, unapologetically!